Blog # 10 Due Now that the semester is pretty much officially over and you have survived
your first semester in college, write a solid paragraph or two giving advice to the next batch
of freshmen. Think of it as a survival guide.
First off, I would recommend going with a random roommate unless you meet with the person face to face before, and you know for a fact you will get along and be able to live with each other. A lot of the times its hard to get to know a person over technology and he/she is not always truthful about their actual personalities and tendencies. Don't just live with someone because you think you would be friends because that doesn't always mean you will be able to live with each other and remain friends. Because of this, you should be completely honest with them from the start and if that doesn't appeal to people, then go the random route so you can easily set out ground rules. Also, be sure to take the roommate contract seriously because it helps to settle a lot of disputes--especially if you don't really get along with your roommate. Another thing to be sure to do is to figure out a place to study where you know you will get work done. Studying in your dorm room might not always work out because of your roommate and his/her habits, so I have found that it is helpful to have a back-up plan. Personally, I enjoy the Russel House Starbucks because it has a good atmosphere and there is easy access to caffeine. Finally, I would say that the key to a good freshman year is being open and personable to people. Most freshman don't know anyone coming to college and in order to make friends, you have to actually try to meet people and seem approachable so that people will try to meet you as well.
First off, I would recommend going with a random roommate unless you meet with the person face to face before, and you know for a fact you will get along and be able to live with each other. A lot of the times its hard to get to know a person over technology and he/she is not always truthful about their actual personalities and tendencies. Don't just live with someone because you think you would be friends because that doesn't always mean you will be able to live with each other and remain friends. Because of this, you should be completely honest with them from the start and if that doesn't appeal to people, then go the random route so you can easily set out ground rules. Also, be sure to take the roommate contract seriously because it helps to settle a lot of disputes--especially if you don't really get along with your roommate. Another thing to be sure to do is to figure out a place to study where you know you will get work done. Studying in your dorm room might not always work out because of your roommate and his/her habits, so I have found that it is helpful to have a back-up plan. Personally, I enjoy the Russel House Starbucks because it has a good atmosphere and there is easy access to caffeine. Finally, I would say that the key to a good freshman year is being open and personable to people. Most freshman don't know anyone coming to college and in order to make friends, you have to actually try to meet people and seem approachable so that people will try to meet you as well.